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How to Stop Gossip

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hcsp.jpgSometimes I'm taken aback by how much gossip has become an acceptable part of our culture. Whether it's learning the 411 on the celebrity of the hour or following the latest political gossip on Twitter, it's hard to turn on the television or walk through the checkout lane of the grocery store without catching a whiff of some juicy news that may or may not be true.
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"Charity never faileth: but whether there be prophecies, they shall fail; whether there be tongues, they shall cease; whether there be knowledge, it shall vanish away." 
--1 Corinthians 13:8 

"Love is what it is." 
--Daniel White Jr. 

The Power of a Mother

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A lot has been said about the influence of moms throughout history - everything from, "The hand the rocks the cradle, rules the world," to, "The single most powerful word in any language is, 'mother'". But I think my all-time favorite is, "If Momma ain't happy, ain't nobody happy." Ha! Truer words were never spoken!! The problem is, we just don't seem to hear such messages anymore.

holidaystress.jpgMany people love the Christmas season. But if you secretly feel a sense of dread this time of year, you're not alone. Holiday anxiety is a serious emotional and physical problem for many people. 

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The United States may be the richest nation on Earth, a new study indicates, but it's not the happiest. The new analysis of Gallup World Poll data suggests, however, that trying to compare the happiness of one nation to another is not straightforward.

The Divorce Infection

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Fascinating stuff from a new study, entitled "Breaking Up is Hard to Do, Unless Everybody Else is Doing It Too":
To explore how social networks influence divorce and vice versa, we utilize a longitudinal data set from the long-running Framingham Heart Study. 
HONESTY-175.jpgConnecticut's Attorney General and U.S. Senate candidate Richard Blumenthal was recently caught lying about his service in Vietnam. According to reports, this wasn't the first time he misspoke and allowed the myth of his wartime service to be spread unchecked.
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Around two in five never-married female and male teenagers have had sex, a newly released study shows. The proportion of 15- to 19-year-olds having sexual intercourse has steadily decreased over the past couple of decades, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention report.
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My husband and I celebrated our first anniversary earlier this year. This occasion marked the end of our shana rishona, the yearlong "honeymoon" period that our rabbis warn us is anything but. It's a time of solidifying the relationship, learning to compromise, and adjusting to a spouse's idiosyncrasies.
We have all been guilty of a transgression at one time or another. That's because we're not perfect. We all commit hurtful acts, violate trust, and hope for forgiveness.

Spare the Rod, Spoil the Report Card

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Prior to becoming the devout, busybody next-door neighbor on the animated hit "The Simpsons," Ned Flanders was an out-of-control brat whose beatnik parents didn't believe in discipline.

Resolving to Fail in 2010

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Goal-setting has never been one of my strong points. I consider myself a classic Type B personality, and have been content with a mantra that has served me well each New Year's: "I resolve to not make any New Year's resolutions."
It never ceases to amaze me how many times I get asked by people (usually, but not always, women) what they should do when the person they are dating is treating them poorly. And by poorly I do not mean that he was 10 minutes late coming to pick the girl up or he forgot what her favorite flower was.
The holiday shopping season is kicking into full force now that Thanksgiving is here. With Black Friday and Cyber Monday just around the corner, some may prefer to stay home and do their shopping online.

Be Thankful, Spend Less

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holidayx-topper-medium.jpgSometime in the 1980s, when he was living on the street, the kid who later became the seminal rapper KRS-One stopped at the Bowery Mission for a sandwich. He doesn't recall what kind, only that it was served with respect.

Married and Lonely at the Same Time

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"I thought I'd lost it," said Billie, a wife of eight years. "I was in the grocery store check-out line. The man in front of me glanced back and smiled. He looked so kind. I had an overwhelming impulse to ask him to hug me. When I got to my car, I burst into tears. I finally had to admit how lonely I felt."

Married with Children a Key to Happiness

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married-w-kids.jpgHaving children improves married peoples' life satisfaction and the more they have, the happier they are.
abused.jpgAs a divorce recovery expert, I have dealt with similar situations. Often, people -- especially churchgoers -- assume domestic violence does not happen within committed Christian relationships.
This month cities, schools and faith-based groups across the country are drawing attention to domestic violence, which some are calling a pandemic.
secret-santa-pic.jpgBefore he died, Stewart expressed how much he would miss his annual unmerited giving spree, during which he was reported to have handed out about 1.3 million dollars.

Happiness is Contagious, Research Finds

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A study of the relationships of nearly 5,000 people tracked for decades in the Framingham Heart Study shows that good cheer spreads through social networks of nearby family, friends and neighbors.
With millions of Americans heading into the Thanksgiving weekend, many may find it hard to be grateful as they experience the crunch from the economic downturn.

The Obamas Put Fitness Into Daily Routine

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barack-michelle-obama-1.jpgMany women recoil at the thought of baring their arms in sleeveless dresses or blouses, but not Michelle Obama -- half of the fabulously fit new first couple.

Bonnie Rabin is fond of saying that divorce lawyers are a bit like liquor stores. They're busiest in the really good times, and the really bad. These, of course, would be the bad times.
Unhappy people glue themselves to the television 30 percent more than happy people. The finding, announced on Thursday, comes from a survey of nearly 30,000 American adults conducted between 1975 and 2006 as part of the General Social Survey.

 
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